Assalamualaikum Warehmatullahi Wabarkatahu

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        *Nikah*

*```Dunya ka sab se behtareen aur Ba-Barkat aur Sada  Nikah```*

Hazrath  Sahal Radi Allahu Tala Anhu  bayan karte hai k Nabi E Kareem صلى الله عليه وسلم  ki khidmat mey ek aurat hazir huwi aur us ne arz kiya Ya Rasool Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم  mai isliye hazir huwi hon k apni zaat Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم  ko hiba kar dun.Nabi E Kareem صلى الله عليه وسلم ne use dekha aur jaiza liya phir  Aap ne Apna sar mubarak jhunka liya Jab us aurat n dekha k Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ne us k bare mey koi faisla nai farmaya to ek taraf ho kar baith gayi.Phir Sahaba mey  se ek Sahabi uthe unho ne arz kiya Ya Rasool Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم ,agar aap ko is ki zaroorat na ho to is ka nikah mere sath kar dijiye .Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ne  pucha Tumhare paas (mehar dene k liye) kuch hai ?
Us ne  arz kiya Allah ki qasam Ya Rasool Allah , mere paas kuch nai hai Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ne farmaya apne ghar ja kar dekho kya koi cheez dastyab ho sakti hai.Woh ghar gaya aur wapas aa kar arz kiya Allah ki qasam Ya Rasool Allah mujhe ghar mey bhi koi cheez nai mili.
Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ne farmaya talash karo aur dekho agar chahe  lohe ki anghuthi hi mil jaye. Chunache woh phir ghar gaya aur wapas aakar kehne laga  Ya Rasool Allah, Allah ki qasam lohe ki anghuthi bhi nai hai, albatta yeh mera zere jama (tehband) zaroor hai . Hazrath  Sahal Radi Allahu Tala Anhu  ne kaha k un k paas chadar bhi na thi. Un Sahabi ne kaha Mai is (tehband) mey saadha bataure mehar dene ko tayyar hon. Is par Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ne farmaya woh tumhare tehband ko le kar kya karegi kyun k ise toh agar tum pahnogey toh is aurat par kuch na hoga aur agar ise pahenne dogey toh tum par kuch na hoga.Is k baad wo shakhs baith gaya aur kafi der baitha raha phir utha (aur jane laga) Jab Rasool Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم  ne use peeth modh kar jate dekha toh Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم  ne use bulwaya Jab woh aa gaya toh Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم  ne farmaya tumhe Quran mey se kuch yaad hai ?
Us ne arz kiya k mujhe falan falan suratein yaad hai.Us ne gin kar suraton k naam bataye Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ne pucha kya tum in suraton ko zubani apne hafze ki madad se padh sakte ho ? Us ne arz kiya Haan,Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم  ne farmaya acha ise le jao yeh Maine tumhare qabze mey di (yani ise tumhare nikah mey diya)Us Quran ki Surtein jo tumhe yaad hai (yaani itna Quran ise seekha dena)
*Sahih Bukhari  Kitab Fazail Quran  Baab  22*

SubhanAllah kitna pyara nikah huwa hai na us aurat ko mehar mey quran ki Surtein naseeb huwi hai. Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ne farmaya nikah ko aasan karo aur zina ko mushkil. Lekin aj ka mahol ultha hogaya nikah ko mushkil aur zina ko aasan kar diye. Allah  mardon aur walidain ko hidayat de jo Allah ki banawat ko pasand nahi karte. Mard ki khwaish hoti hai khubsurat ladki hona ,ache khandan wali hona, kam age ki hona, dowry b achi hona  Allahu Akbar pata nahi nikah kar rahe hai yah apni khwaish puri krre aur toh hamare musalman behano k demand b MashaAllah se hogaye Smart, gud luking, gud height, well educated, well settled rehna specially abroad aur gulf. Agar ladki MBA padhi huwi hai toh ladka b MBA wala hona kate, ladki gori hai toh ladka b gora rehna kate,ladki Dr rahe toh Ladka b Dr hona kate, age limit wala hona  nikah karre yah status maintain karre. Manta hon ladki k liye well educated and well settled chahiye zindegi achi guzarne k liye. Kabhi yeh sonche agar ache Aklaaq, deendar se nikah kare toh zindegi aur b zyada khubsurat hogi. dunya mey ache rehna bolke apni aaqirat barbad math karo. Aap صلى الله عليه وسلم ne farmaya mard ko chahiye ki woh deendar aurat se nikah kare aur dusri hadees mey aurton ko b ache Aklaaq aur deendar mard se nikah karne ka huqoom diya hai. Tumhari zaroorat hadh se zyada hori puri karne wala shohar hai aur Allah ki yaad se mehroom rakhta ho toh aise shohar rehne se acha tum kunwari raho apni aaqirat bar baad math karo. Ache Aklaaq aur deendar se nikah karo jab jake tumhari dunya aur aaqirat b Khair hogi. Allah hum sab ko Sunnat k mutabiq nikah karne ki taufeeq farmaye. Ameen. Aur jis behano ko nikah hone mey mushkil hori woh sabr kare koi gadbad na kre Allah ne jis waqt muqarrar kiya usi waqt sab kaam hoga. Waqt se pehle koi kaam nhi hoga In Shaa Allah sab ache se hojayega. Yeh math soncho age badh rahi hai rishte nhi aayengey yaad rakho Allah ne tumhara jis insaan se joda banaya usi se nikah hoga chahe tumhari age bade yah na bade.

Ya Allah in baaton pe sab se zyada mujhe amal krne ki taufeeq ata farmaye. Ameen